Done With Games (It's Called Growing Up)

Lately I have been feeling ignored. I was told to fight fire with fire.

"Ignore his calls and texts. Don't talk to him."

How childish. I feel that communication is important in a relationship. I don't simply mean in a coupled relationship. Family, friendships, co-workers, everyone must communicate if they are to interact at all. So if you do not like me then you can tell me. I do not need to play this game where I ignore you because I feel ignored. I want to simply hear it from you, or get the message. Granted at this point the case is pointing at we are both suddenly very busy and it is making together time difficult to scrape up.

I've said this many times lately and I feel the need to say it yet again. I'm a big girl. I can handle it. You can tell me you don't feel this way anymore and I won't go crazy. But I'm getting too old for games. I may only be twenty, but once you graduate high school it's time to cut the bullshit.

I told my friend that while I appreciate her concern I'm not up for that sort of behavior. I will just discuss my status when I see him next. I need to be mature. If ever there was an area where I knew how to behave maturely it would be this. Honesty is key, I've got a guarantee.