She's selfish and never satisfied with what she has. She's been with someone for almost four years now. He wants to buy her a ring when he saves up enough. She says she wants to marry him, but she also wants to fool around with other guys.
"I feel like I haven't experienced much. I've only had sex with two guys and I don't wanna get married and not be able to do anything else. I feel like I'm missing out. I want to explore first, but I still wanna marry HIM in the end after I'm done."
Yeah...
So She's been cheating on him for a year or two.
There are four of us... Four friends. Us girls are supposedly best friends, the guys are supposedly best friends, and she is supposedly best friends with the single man of the two. I've liked this guy for going on seven years.
Why? I don't know.
She liked him in high school and every few months likes to bitch about how he should have asked her out back then. He has once again confessed his feelings for her after being the shy idiot that he is for all these years yet again. The confession was brought forth during a party where both participants were high and drunk. She more high. He more drunk.
As the best friend of someone when is it OK to make-out with their girlfriend/future fiancé? Well it's obviously not... It's also not quite OK to try really hard to finger her, get her to give you head, have sex with her, or any combination of the three (in this case ALL OF THE ABOVE). But he did it.
How would he feel if he knew you thought he was horrible at kissing/making-out? That you said he didn't know what he was doing at all? That he couldn't find your...
That sure makes you feel like a man, eh?
You said it was awkward and horrible and you didn't want to talk to him at all about it. Basically you claimed you wanted to pretend it never happened and move on.
This didn't happen because you refused to talk about it so he kept trying. You've made out with him at the movies. You've made out with him at his house half naked and touched yourself for him only stopping because your future husband came knocking at the door.
Now the shit has hit the fan because I tried to tell you all to fuck off, but she still wants me around... Why? You don't appear to value this friendship.
Does this say "I value you as a friend." ?
"Well.... do you want me to stop?"
"What if we just do it and don't tell you?"
"Well... could I at least take his virginity first?"
"Why are you trying to leave?"
Maybe I should check my English, but I believe the answer is... NO
After we all talked... and I let him know that if this continues I'm leaving the group... and he told you he wanted it all to stop so it wouldn't feel awkward around your soon to be fiancé and he could still be my friend and stop hurting me... and you were going to tell him that you felt the same and wanted him because "I started to let feelings develop again"
Well he "crushed you" and it "sucks" because he "opened up your feelings just to hurt you in the end" and "it would have been better if he had never kissed you in the first place" and now you're really hurt and feel like crying.
And I'm supposed to make you feel better and tell you you're right and it'll get better...
But what I can't tell you is the truth.
You gave Revilo head repeatedly and let him do things to you. He used you like I said he would and then went back to his girlfriend.
You give Axm head and let him fuck you and eat you out almost regularly and you tend to do it right before you go see your so called future husband.
You tried to date Dach, had sex with him, but he dumped you for being an emotionally abusive bitch. Good call on his part.
You hooked up with CK the night you met him. He was wasted. He avoids you now... and you were hoping I did the same that night with someone else so you wouldn't feel so easy. But I didn't. Do you feel it?
You joined a dating site and try to meet men with intentions of fucking them on the first date and also hope to find a better man instead of your four year long boyfriend who you won't break up with just in case you never find anyone else.
You talk about sex with all the guys at work and have made it clear you were willing for a few of them though now you say you won't do it because you don't want seconds from the other girl we work with... but who knows what you'll sink to at this point...
Because you let this happen just as easily.
You're such a victim... I know. I've heard it many times now.
But I have one question...
Am I the one who's easy? Am I the girl who treats men like tissue simply because I flirt with many men at once? Am I the whore based on the number of men I've slept with? None of which were at the same time AND I was single each time (when in relationships faithful though the relationships never lasted unfortunately...) and have been single for a long time while trying to eventually find a guy to be in a solid and healthy relationship with though for now I've had no luck.
Or is it you? The one lying and pretending to be faithful to someone you've been with for four years while you look for someone better? The one who has sex with other men and then tells your boyfriend you love him knowing that if he knew he would be horribly hurt and leave you forever? The one who judges men based on how big their dicks are? The one who thinks that their boyfriend may even love them enough to forgive them for all of this... But does that make it right? Does that make it OK for you to continue?
I think you'll be too fucking selfish to stop now. I'm not going to help you and I can see now that you won't help yourself.
